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There was once a happy gathering…
Then a massacre happened!
The murder weapon was found at the scene:
The survivors gathered to celebrate life
People keep telling me “you must be happy now that Chávez is dead” Actually, no.
Do not get me wrong, I am not sad that he’s gone. He was, in my view, a terrible human being. But he was a human being none the less. He had daughters and friends and other people who I’m sure genuinely loved him. There is a phrase that says “Every death has to be respected but not every death has to be mourned” and I agree.
It is thanks to him that I had to abandon the country that I called home, leave my family, my MOTHER behind and move to a completely different country, with a different culture, views, and weather at the age of 23. However, I do not resent him for this particular incident; granted, I miss my family, I haven’t been able to hold my new niece, or hug my grandmother but at least I see them through Skype. Canada has given me a great quality of life, a wonderful husband whom I love with all my heart, and my own business.
Then, what do I feel about his passing? I feel HOPE, hope that the country can start the healing process, hope that I won’t be afraid of bringing my kids one day. Hope that my mom is going to be safe, hope that my family will be able to get whatever they want at the grocery store. Hope for a better future…
Due to my type of business, I get to talk with a lot of moms and sometimes I talk about something I’ve done. The response I always get is:
Once you have kids, you will NEVER do that again
I understand that it would be harder to do certain things like doing your own manicure, or sleeping 8 hours on any given night; however, the last one I got was after I mentioned what I was going to cook that night and that my husband would be happy because he would be able to take it for lunch next day. The mom laughed and said I would NEVER be able to make lunch for my husband once I had kids.
I must confess that these scary statements are great contraceptions. I’m just glad I don’t talk about my sex life! Although, *that* has to be possible since some moms have more than one kid 😉
Anyways, I want to ask all the moms out there: since you had kids, have you EVER been able to:
- Wake up at 7:00 am
- Do your own nails
- Blow dry your hair
- Go out for dinner with your spouse or a friend
- Give your spouse left over dinner for his lunch the following day
- Read a book
- Have a picnic
- Go for a walk
- Have a 10-minute phone conversation with a friend or family member
- Cook something that requires more than 10 minutes prep time
Involvement in twitter and having to interact with people has made me realize that I am an extremely
weird particular person when it comes to food. What makes me think that? Let’s see:
- When I eat popcorn, I have a little bowl with me so I can eat the crunchy part and save the soft part for later
- I cut my stake in such a way that I always have a cube on my plate
- The last part I eat on my sandwiches is the middle. Hence, I always put the best part in the middle, this is why bagels seem useless for me
- Did you know that M&M, Smarties, and similar foods are tastier when you put the single colours in your mouth in even numbers? Yup, that way you have the same amount of awesome on each side of your mouth
- The more the edges in a brownie, the better. However, the best piece of a sponge cake is the edgeless one taken from the middle
- Desserts cannot have alcohol in them
- Chocolate and ice cream can only be enjoyed if there are no chunks or nuts in them, that way they can dissolve in your mouth without interference
- Raisin = Punishment
- I rather hot and savory than cold and sweet. Therefore, soup and chip trumps salad and dessert. This also makes it really tricky to snack during the day
- Hot brownie by itself = Heaven. Hot brownie with cold ice cream = Hell
- Cinnamon makes coffee tasty but ruins cooked fruit
- If it’s a dessert made with strawberry “flavour”, then yuck
- I eat a LOT and really fast, yet I never seem able to finish more than half a plate of pasta
- I could live off of soup
- Breakfast if my favourite meal of the day yet I never know what to make
- When I eat more than one flavour of ice cream, chocolate goes on the bottom and a fruit flavour (except strawberry) goes on the top
- I do not eat bright blue food, as in Smurf coloured food, not blue corn blue since I consider that to be purple
- I always eat whatever I don’t like first and my fav food last, that way I can have the best flavour last
- I start my pizza from the crust
- If I am eating at someone else’s house I will eat anything and everything they give me. This is the reason why I passed out once at a friend’s.
And now that everything is in a list form, I realize that I am ever more “particular” than I thought
Do you have any peculiarities when it comes to food/eating?
The other day I saw the following review about business X which is geared towards children:
I took my daughter there the other day and she totally LOVED IT! But we are not going back, because next time she is going to get bored
I really much doubt that this lady has a crystal ball that lets her see into the future. She is thinking for her daughter, making the assumption that she will get bored and, if by any chance the daughter tells her that she wants to go back and mom says “ok, but you’ll get bored” believe me: she WILL get bored.
I see this all the time: at the park with a 2-year old “there is nobody to play with, you will get bored” Lady, let your child decide for himself! They have plenty of imagination and left to their own devices they will have fun! Just because you wouldn’t have fun at a park if there is no one to play with, doesn’t mean it would be the same for your child. For example: most of you might get pretty bored with a big empty box, now give it your child. That box is going to turn into a castle, a race car, a fort, a space ship, a police car, a pony, a hospital, and many other things!
Let me give you another example, an example that involves an adult: I have a friend that was such a picky eater, it has taken several years for him to start eating new foods. When I met him, he didn’t like many things such as french toast, mushrooms, cheese, or *gasps* wine! After a lot of frustration trying to make him try out of my plate at restaurants I asked the magic question:
- Have you tried it before?
- Then, how do you know you won’t like it?
I didn’t get him to try it that time but, thankfully, it got him thinking. Several days later he did try what I offered, he didn’t like it right away but I told him to try it at least 3 times, he complied, and actually didn’t mind the dish. On the day that I offered French Toast and he said he didn’t like it, we talked and made a big discovery: when he was little his mom told him that he wouldn’t like it, so he never tried it. Since that day he will not reject a dish that he hasn’t tried before. I am happy to report that now he loves a good cheese fondue while enjoying a glass of red wine!
Let your child think for themselves, you would be surprised!
Today during my Teenie walk I encountered Life’s Mystery. Alas! I encountered the mystery itself, not the answer: all the grass along our trek, I repeat ALL THE GRASS was deemed unworthy of being peed on. This time, the asphalt in the middle of the road was more deserving… five times.
There, ponder THAT mystery!